-- Scipio the Elder (235–183 BC)
Introverts don't usually need "vacations" to "get away from it all," at least not if we've been able to do things as introverts like to do them in which case there's nothing to get away from - We love what we're doing so why would we want to leave it? For us, to be alone and working on something that is of interest, undisturbed (except possibly for short breaks when we might enjoy a distraction), is as good as any vacation might be to others.
To an introvert, a cruise ship looks like a "prison ship"
The usual type of so-called "vacation" (as defined by an extrovert or a nonthinking-any-kind-of-vert) would be a miserable chore for an introvert, and we would be longing to get back to what we want to get back to ... though this might not be true if the "vacation" is not as defined by an extrovert, but is something that is exactly what we need/want to do at the time. In fact a "working vacation" (i.e., doing what we do all the time but in another locale) would probably be the most tolerable - even sometimes enjoyable - "vacation" for an introvert, as long as it didn't last too long, but nothing is as enjoyable and salutary as getting back to home ground and getting back to our studies and creative activities, etc.
It's quite possible, of course, that an introvert has other, secondary, interests and would like to pursue those interests from time to time, and you might call the pursuit of these other interests "vacations," though these interests would probably be pursued just as intensely as the main interest and the introvert would need to be able to concentrate on them as much as on their first love.
The worst kind of so-called "vacation" for me to contemplate (and I think I'm a typical introvert) would be one where I did nothing but stand around, sit around, walk around and/or lie around (wasting precious time) in the company of people (just for one example, members of a tour group) I have little or nothing in common with, with whom I'm expected to talk or perhaps even play games or otherwise interact with, and sometimes whose itinerary I must follow. I would feel like a prisoner in those circumstances and would long for an escape...I would hardly be able to think of anything else.
Please, do not ever think I need a vacation because if you were in my place you would need one. If I ever need a "vacation," I would much prefer it be of my own choosing -- I must choose when I need to go, where I need to go, what I need to do, the way I need to do it, and how much time I'll spend on whatever I'm doing. It may be just to the back yard to walk around with a camera and take pictures for ten minutes...My life is full of "mini-vacations" like this that continually refresh me. - Jean
I would rather be here . . .
. . . than "on vacation."
An Etcher in his Studio
by Charles Frederic Ulrich - c. 1882
from The Athenaeum
by Charles Frederic Ulrich - c. 1882
from The Athenaeum
Except for "looking" at a cruise chip as a prison ship-I see it as an opportunity to enhance my secondary interests- this article reflects much of my thinking and doing! My hubby and I enjoy cruises to intensely pursue other interests: dancing, educational lectures, regular and accelerated fitness routine, library, photo journaling, and of course new cultural destinations, etc. Thank you for writing what I have been trying to express.
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